Friday, March 7, 2014

Building Love

                     Somebody said to me today it is ignorant to believe one person will love you forever.  This was my response to them and though it may come as a shock to some ppl that these thoughts came from my own head being I am not a mushy sappy individual in the least it is true this was my own response to them. Maybe its because I have watched to many sappy shows this week maybe I'm just feeling argumentative lol when am I not. or maybe its because for the past 20 years I've watched love evolve every day in my own home. Given it was not always pretty or perfect but it was love and it continues to grow stronger and stronger. These two people have the strongest "wall" I've ever seen built up and its only taken 25 years. God willing there are 25+ more years of building to come.            

                                                      
No its not. Your only saying these things bcuz your still bitter.....if you want to love someone you will. Love doesn't just happen its something you have to work at every single day. No 2 ppl are just going to be in love there things you do and say that make your love stronger like building a wall. The more effort you put into loving some one the stronger that wall becomes so when hard things come along and chip away at the wall those things are not strong enough to completely destroy that wall, not strong enough to destroy your love because you work at it every day every hour every minute building it back up. But if you don't work at and don't try then no wall is built and its that much easier for one little thing to completely destroy that wall..... so yea if some one decides not to love that one person forever they won't but if you want to it will and that's how u know its love because you are willing to work at it every day no matter how hard it is or challenging it can be.

Xoxo
Kaitlyn Pearl <3